Lunch with Daddy

We had lunch with Daddy at his new job today. Lucia helped herself to three humongous servings of what else - berries from these giant dishes. She ate most of her BLT and hummus too. The office spaces were impressive: sleek and modern and very Silicon Valley. Good times were had. In the picture she's holding her third serving of berries: the cup was completely full.

Christmas 2012

Given the fact we spent a week with my family in Florida in September, another trip home to see them in July, and that I'm 6+ mos pregnant, we decided to stay home this year for Christmas. We had a few things planned in hopes of making it special since my first time staying home for Christmas (ever!), and had hoped they would be enough to make it ours.

I can tell you with certainty that it's just harder having Christmas traditions that seem meaningful and tied together at our own place. Christmas is like anything else with a lot of expectations and emotions and memories around it, and if things don't measure up it can be disappointing. While we had fun things planned, they didn't measure up to being with our families and doing the things we grew up doing. At least for me they didn't. We'll be going home to Delaware next year and will plan the rest of our vacation next year around going home. Both my family and Pete's are coming out when Baby Boy arrives, so that will help break up the year.

But let's get to the presents for Lucia, shall we? I was super excited to get her presents this year, because I feel like it's the first year she gets Christmas.

As we've mentioned, she asked Santa for Baby Dora. She also wanted this hideously plastic matching stroller with it, but 1. she has two baby strollers already and 2. that thing was $30 and 3. it was a toy for a 1-2 year old. Um, no. But we realized the importance of her getting what she asked Santa for in order to believe the whole Santa story, so we did get her the baby.

I saw that the IKEA kid's kitchen was $40 off this year, so one night when we went over there for other gifts, Lucia helped me buy it, unsuspecting given everything was in plain brown boxes. Score. Also, high-five to me for getting the boxes in the car solo (1 was 12 lbs, the other was 30 something).

The little sleeping bag on top matches the one she sleeps in every day (OK, some days) at her school for naps. When I saw they had a doll version, I was sold. Waiting for one-day sales really helped.

The Princess music CD: we listen to the Disney Pandora station on the days I take her to school, and she lights up with the princess songs come on. This way we'll always have them in the car and won't have to listen to any Peabo Bryson waiting for the best songs to come up.

On Christmas morning she woke me up and was nearly jumping up and down showing me the Dora; we decided to not wrap her presents so I guess she ventured out when the "green light was on," [God bless that stoplight alarm clock] and found her gifts. Adorable for sure, but I wished we had been able to see the magic... lessons learned.

She also got a huge Cinderella castle from my parents and a huge Lego Fire Station from Pete's parents.

For us? We're excited to get our new TV to go with our new toaster oven and microwave. Getting pretty fancy here in Oakland! We are also planning a last-hurrah trip in January or February down the Coast and are thankful for Pete's family's help to fund that. Overall, it was an OK Christmas! I'm off work for the rest of the week, Pete is off again for Jan. 1 and my parents arrive next week, so I'm excited to see them and spend time with them.

Santa was happy the kitchen was assembled quickly. 

Posing

Making eggs for Mommy.

This is how we found her when we were ready to go to Eddie's for Christmas dinner. 

Crashed waiting for the elevator after pinnekjøtt at Elin & Essie's

Completely asleep at church

Outside the Norwegian Church "Mommy I'm cold!"

That time I sprained my ankle

Our elevator at home was out yesterday and in my haste to get Lucia to school and myself to work, while wearing rainboots, I missed a step or two and stumbled. Immediately my ankle hurt but I didn't have a lot of options, so I kept on with my morning. I iced it when I got to work and around 11 I went to get lunch, hobbling but able to walk. Two hours later it was much worse and I couldn't bear any weight on it. My car was parked three blocks away and Lucia had to be picked up by 6. So Pete to the rescue! He drove home and then took a cab to get the Prius in the parking garage near my office. Meanwhile, I took a cab to the hospital and was treated super fast. Baby boy is just fine: he was sucking his thumb on the ultrasound. I now have crutches and am icing it. It hurt a LOT last night but was some better today.

Routine Amidst Heartbreak

After the news of the Newtown shooting, all I wanted to do was see Pete and Lucia and do normal stuff. We cancelled plans Saturday and walked to the yummy bakery and the farmer's market for our Christmas tree and a tasty roasted chicken. Here's a shot of Pete and Lucia (don't ask about that awful hat she's wearing; she loves it) with our tree. We came home, decorated our tree and just enjoyed each other's company.

Today I went to brunch with my closest girlfriends, which had been scheduled for a long time but was a welcome relief from the heartache. Pete took Lucia swimming, and as you can see, she's made so much progress in her lessons.





Every kick with baby boy and milestones like these have hurt this weekend; that's what those parents of the children killed felt for their children. Such a bittersweet moment today; Lucia reaching milestones. But as we all know about life, the only thing you can do is love and live and cherish each moment. I'm so proud of her, and hugged her tightly and smelled her hair, trying to memorize every part of her in case the unthinkable ever happened.

Lucia's also learned to pray recently (our beloved babysitter and nursery coordinator taught her), and we prayed last night and thanked God for each other. I pray that God is with those families, those sweet souls, and us as a nation as we look within to find the courage to change.

Giving Back

We've been trying to think of some small but meaningful ways to spread a little kindness this holiday season. Also, Pete's been out of town all week so I've been telling Lucia that each day we get to have an adventure. I decided that one night this week we'd make muffins for the local firefighters. I bought a huge bunch of bananas at the store Tuesday and a bag of chocolate chips and last night, we excitedly assembled them. We wrote out a Christmas card for them, with Lucia dictating. She wanted to say I love you over and over again and also? awww moment? to give away her beloved candy she received after visiting Santa the other day. She also looked around the kitchen and suggested, "I know, maybe they need salt!!!" Could be, but let's maybe just start with the muffins, ok kid?

After our card was done and the muffins had cooled, Lucia tried one and declared them delicious and suitable for gift-giving. I wrapped them in foil and dropped them in a bag this morning and toted them in my car. After another dinnertime showdown at Chipotle, complete with her yelling loudly that I was a bad mommy (ahem), we hugged, I gave her a piggyback ride halfway to the car and we headed over to the local fire station to deliver our goods.

It was beyond cute. They showed her the difference between a fire engine and a fire truck, and had their guys keep sliding down the poles for her to see. They let her get in the fire engine too. One of them, pictured below, said his girls were now teenagers and he wished they were still Lucia's age. She insisted they open and read their card right there, and hugged each of them multiple times. They said thank you just as many. We told them to please enjoy the muffins and have a Merry Christmas. Tonight felt really really good to give back.

Santa Lucia

The Young Scandinavians Club does their annual Santa Lucia celebration and it's my go-to official kickoff of the Christmas season. Last night Pete was buried with work, but I rallied to take Lucia anyway. Parking in that part of San Francisco is always dicey, but I managed to find one (hooray) and arrived with minutes to spare before the performance started. They sing Santa Lucia on the processional and recessional, and Lucia pointed to herself each time they said her name. Of course. Our friend Jonas sang Oh Holy Night in Swedish and it always brings tears to my eyes; he wasn't there last year so it was super special to hear him. Afterwards we had to wait for a while to see Santa but it was worth it; Lucia thought so anyway. She told Santa she wants some toys out of this Fisher Price catalog we got in the mail and tried in vain to hide from her. She now squirrels it away in her room and combs over the toys. Guess someone needs to take a gander to see what this "Dora baby" is all about. While walking to the car after the performance, Lucia said her favorite song we sang was Jingle Bells. So cute.

Pardon the terrible shadow on these; I did the best I could.

Chipotle

It seems that someone we know has fallen out of love with chipotle, our go-to place for healthy, inexpensive dinner. We went anyway tonight. On the way over, she asked if she could have dessert, I said that if she ate all of her beans she could have dessert. She decided to goof off and "jack around" as we call it. The last photo was taken after I told her to stop jacking around. What finally worked to get her to eat was setting a timer on my phone and telling her the beans had to be eaten before it went off. Ta-da! Dinner eaten. Vegan chocolate chip cookie and a clementine for dessert, after sitting on my shrinking lap and painting with her watercolor set. A pretty fun night after all.

Holiday weekend

It was pretty restful and fun. We hung out with friends and just let them take care of (me). These pictures are out of order, fwiw.

View of my favorite city from the Marin headlands

Stickers for baby brudder

"Now I'll put them on my baby."

Singing Little Mermaid as we head out

Lunch break and coloring

Golden Gate park, I heart thee

At the base of the Bay Bridge

Marin Headlands

Golden Gate park

Hill walk last night. So pretty. 

Gorgeous foliage.

Thankful

Not much longer now, the guests will be here in about 6 hours. Lucia helped me set the table last night. I don't want to speak for Pete but we are enormously thankful for our friends and family. And most of all, a healthy baby in my belly. Beyond thrilled.

Oh good grief

Someone has learned the I am adorable pose. Lord help us.

Yes, exactly like that.

Lucia told me quietly this morning that she didn't like when I talked to Daddy. I asked why not; she said it was because she has to wait a long time for her turn. Given her recent propensity for interrupting every single conversation, we're trying to teach her to wait her turn, and it must be excruciating for her. But, I told her this morning, each of us all have to wait our turns to wait, and it's hard sometimes for all of us, not just her. Because we're all members of the same team; just like her soccer team (she plays soccer at preschool). She said, "[Our family team is] just like a soccer team, only with a TV."

Yes, exactly like that. So funny. 

Hit & Run

Found my car like this this afternoon. Someone has crashed into it sometime this weekend or earlier today. This could have happened anywhere, but this is just another thing that has happened to it in Oakland.
A new fender is no more than $100, but it will have to be painted also. However, Im not interested in having any paint work done as long as I have to park it on the street.
Having filed the police report, the next thing I will have to try is bending the fender back out - or I cant drive the car!
I'm mostly bummed nobody cared to leave a note and that it didn't happen on the passenger side fender because it has attracted a lot of small dents already. This fender was clean.
I hope the alignment is OK, or this will be a lot more expensive should there also be damage to the suspension as well. From the looks of it, it seems like someone has backed into it.

Pride

Lucia announced at the dinner table last night that yesterday she learned how to write the letter R. "I twied and twied and twied, and finally got it!"

So freaking cute.

New top!

So its that time again, rain is here! My top has been a bit leaky in the last few years, but since it doesnt rain here all that much, I have just parked it in the garage on those days. However over the summer the rear plastic window really started getting difficult to see through, it looked like a frosted window, more suitable as a bathroom window. I tried to fix it, but it didn't really work. A new top was ordered - with a real glass window this time, and I also had it tinted. The top is made of black canvas that's sandwiched over a rubber core and with canvas backing. Needless to say the new top looks awesome and it also cuts down on the wind noise quite a bit compared to the old thin vinyl top. Here are a couple of before and after shots I took today. 

The new top looks super clean, as if grafted from a new Porsche or something, and the rest of my car looks a bit tired now in comparison... 

There was several open holes and gaps in the old top, as seen in the image above - directly above the seat you see a tear with daylight shining through. You can also see how frosted the rear window was. Not safe!!
An added bonus with the tinted glass is that, at night, cars behind me dont blind me as the rear view mirror.

Happy Halloween!

We went trick or treating in an charming little neighborhood between ours and her school with her classmates. The school had a "parade" which wasn't really much of a parade but mostly a walk around the yard. Oh well. Lucia seemed unimpressed and just wanted to get to the trick or treating part. Also, her teachers put her costume on her and forgot her bun (the horrors), crown and glass slippers. Tsk tsk. But we recovered. We liked going with the nicer boys in the class instead of the catty girls. I'm amazed at how early the cattiness starts, but have seen it first-hand. Lucia doesn't get wrapped up in it and is able to stand up for herself, but being sensitive, I know it bothers her. Anyway, we laughed with the fellow parents as we tried to get the boys to pose for this group shot. They were totally all over the map. Meanwhile, Lucia sat there nicely like duh, we're taking a picture, sit still. Boys and girls are so dramatically different; it's so hilarious to watch.

We went up and down one block and hit nearly every house, turned around and went down the other side of the street. Lucia said that her "bee bag" was full and she couldn't fit anymore candy and wanted to go home. Ok then! I'm still battling the residual effects of a cold, so I was all for that. We all ate candy in the car on the way home. She's already talking about next year; she wants to be Tinkerbell. Ok then!

Thankful

We are so thankful our family on the east coast is safe. Terrifying to think about a tree falling on their houses. They are unscathed, but some are without electricity. Keep safe. We love you.

Not Again!

Yep, again. Another ear infection. Her fever was 103 at the doc today. Oy. We always go back and forth over whether to treat these. Today I was so tired and not feeling great myself so I just told the Doc to make the call. He said to treat it. We know she'll feel better tomorrow.

First Official Haircut

Little Missy Miss has never had a real haircut. Sure I've cut it in our bathroom, using my rudimentary "skills" which involved cutting directly across the bottom a total of three times, but lately it was looking super raggedy and well, it was time. Thankfully, my good friend Dianna is a hairdresser and offered to cut it. Pete and I both want to keep her hair long (and well, Lucia does too) so this was a big deal: trusting someone to cut it. Saturday was the big day. Pete had to work, so we headed over to Palo Alto for the cut in a big-girl salon. She wasn't the biggest fan of the washing/conditioning stage; I think the sound scared her, but she sat pretty still (I mean, for a 4 yo) for the duration of the haircut. Dianna was impressed and said it was the easiest kid ever. Sweet. Lucia cleaned out their brownie bite collection and I sipped hot tea (we've been nursing nasty colds.) Her hair looks SO MUCH BETTER now and seems less prone to tangles, although I admit to not really doing much to her hair everyday. Thanks Dianna! You da best.

BEFORE

AFTER (chocolate mouthed)

Bodega Bay

Our weekend trip to Bodega Bay was pretty awesome * minus the part about how Pete had to stay home to work. :( That part was sad and I admit I cried about it, twice. 

We paired up with our favorite families, the ones we went camping with last year, to rent this amazing house for the weekend. Lauren, organizer extraordinaire, created a spreadsheet and we all got meal assignments. Aleyta, who is new to the group, brought gift boxes for each kid and mommies too! (and tons of maternity clothes for me -- hooray!). It was seriously the most relaxing weekend I've had in a long time. There wasn't phone signal, so I couldn't text or check Facebook or anything all weekend. Ahhhhhhhhhhhh. Lucia slept in the bed with me, which worked out OK. We had a picnic Saturday afternoon and sat outside to eat our lunches. Lauren took Lucia with her when it was naptime, as my eyes were practically crossed I was so tired. She's a God-send. The husbands of the group took care of me too, helping me cook and unload/load my car and just generally checking in on me. Everyone understood my energy level was in the negatives, and just took care of me. Man it was awesome. We really missed Pete though, and were so happy to see him when we got home yesterday afternoon. Here's some pictures of the weekend. 

Lauren goofing off. 

Eating snacks at the beach. 

View from the back porch.

First morning up, sleepyheaded.

The view from my pimpin suite. 

Playing a game on the beach; I later smoked Lauren at this. Ha! 

Being silly, of course.